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Optimistic44

48 – East London (Southernwood), Eastern Cape, South Africa

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Online: More than 6 months ago

Modified: More than 6 months ago

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In His Own Words

About Him

Well-mannered, charitable, all-round conversationalist, sensitive, love well-groomed kids, playful and can be serious when required, enjoy in and outdoor life, appreciate nature, prayerful,loyal, respect ful, active listener, appreciates informed debates but dislike arguments, arrogance, injustice and any form of abuse. Enjoy good music and travelling.So why am I not married with all these attributes; you ask me.

About His Ideal Match

A Queen with a good head and a good heart. Someone loyal and open-minded; curious, loyal to her family. She should be able to have a descent conversation in any environment.

We pass through this world but once and opportunities you miss will never be available to you again
-Nelson Mandela

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About Him

Country of Origin:
South Africa
Location:
East London (Southernwood), Eastern Cape, South Africa
Gender:
Male
Age:
48
Star Sign:
Capricorn
Height:
172cm (5' 7.7")
Body Type:
Average
Looks:
Attractive
Hair Colour:
Balding
Eye Colour:
Black
HIV Positive:
Yes
Full Blown AIDS:
No
HIV+ Diagnosed:
November -1
Ethnicity:
Black/African
Home Language:
Xhosa
Other Languages:
English; Zulu
Religion:
Christian / Other
Relationship Status:
Single
Looking for:
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term
Have Children:
Yes, not living with me
Want Children:
No
Daily Diet:
Eat most things
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker
Education:
Some University / College
Occupation:
Self-employed
Income:
Ask me later

About His Ideal Match

Country of Origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Anywhere in the World
Gender:
Female
Age Range:
31 - 45
Star Sign:
Any
Height:
140cm (4' 7.1") or shorter - 172cm (5' 7.7")
Body Type:
Slim; Average; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous
Looks:
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Attractive
Hair Colour:
Any
Eye Colour:
Any
Has a Photo:
Not important at all
HIV Positive:
Any
Full Blown AIDS:
Any
Ethnicity:
Black/African; Coloured; Mixed; Black/Caribbean
Home Language:
English; Ndebele; Sepedi; Sesotho; Swahili; Swati; Tsonga; Tswana; Venda; Xhosa; Zulu
Other Languages:
Any
Religion:
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Muslim; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox
Relationship Status:
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed; It's Complicated
Have Children:
Any
Want Children:
No
Daily Diet:
Eat most things; Eat healthily
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker
Education:
Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

More About Him

More Physical Characteristics
Hair Style:
Well-behaved
Eyesight:
I've got 20/20 vision
Body Hair:
Shaved
Disabilities:
I have none
Body Art:
I don't have any
Personality
Sense of Humour:
Light-hearted
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The head
Party Behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality Traits:
Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Realistic; Stable
Valued Qualities:
Charity; Compassion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Tolerance
Fashion Sense:
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels)
Leisure & Entertainment
Date Activities:
A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach
Music Preferences:
Blues; Classical; Jazz; R&B / Soul
Reading:
I enjoy it
Books:
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Business; Crime; Fiction; History; Non-fiction; Romance; Science / Technology; Travel
TV Habits:
There're several shows I watch regularly
TV Shows:
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Nature / Wildlife; News; Soap operas; Sport; Talk shows; Variety shows
Movie Frequency:
Once or twice a month
Movie Preferences:
Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Romance; War
Interests:
Business news; Gardening; Healthy living; Investing; Meditation; Reading; Surfing the Internet; Writing books
Sport Involvement:
Watching from the couch
Sports:
Birdwatching; Body building; Bungee jumping; Camping; Cycling; Horse Riding; Motorsport; Running; Soccer; Surfing; Swimming; Table Tennis; Weight training
Food
Cooking:
I cook rather than starve
Food:
Fine Dining; Seafood; South African
Go Out to Eat:
I eat out a few times a month
Dietary Restrictions:
Other
More Lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Manageable
Pastimes of choice:
Spending time with the family
Take Drugs:
Never
Family Size:
I'm an only child
Family Closeness:
We're average
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Likes & Dislikes
Pets (Like):
Bird(s)
Pets (Dislike):
Reptile(s)
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Power; Wealth
Turn-offs:
Sarcasm
The Deep Stuff
Religious Attendance:
Once a week
Politics:
Liberal
Retirement Plans:
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World
Feelings about using PositiveBuzz:
Optimistic
Honesty:
Very