In His Own Words
About Him
Well-mannered, charitable, all-round conversationalist, sensitive, love well-groomed kids, playful and can be serious when required, enjoy in and outdoor life, appreciate nature, prayerful,loyal, respect ful, active listener, appreciates informed debates but dislike arguments, arrogance, injustice and any form of abuse. Enjoy good music and travelling.So why am I not married with all these attributes; you ask me.
About His Ideal Match
A Queen with a good head and a good heart. Someone loyal and open-minded; curious, loyal to her family. She should be able to have a descent conversation in any environment.
We pass through this world but once and opportunities you miss will never be available to you again
-Nelson Mandela
What His Friends Say
Optimistic44 hasn't asked any friends to write a recommendation yet.
About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
East London (Southernwood), Eastern Cape, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
49 | |
Star Sign: |
Capricorn | |
Height: |
172cm (5' 7.7") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Balding | |
Eye Colour: |
Black | |
HIV Positive: |
Yes | |
Full Blown AIDS: |
No | |
HIV+ Diagnosed: |
November -1 | |
Ethnicity: |
Black/African | |
Home Language: |
Xhosa | |
Other Languages: |
English; Zulu | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Ask me later |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
31 - 45 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
140cm (4' 7.1") or shorter - 172cm (5' 7.7") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Not important at all | ||
HIV Positive: |
Any | ||
Full Blown AIDS: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Black/African; Coloured; Mixed; Black/Caribbean | ||
Home Language: |
English; Ndebele; Sepedi; Sesotho; Swahili; Swati; Tsonga; Tswana; Venda; Xhosa; Zulu | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Muslim; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed; It's Complicated | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Well-behaved |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Body Hair: |
Shaved |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Compassion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Date Activities: |
A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Jazz; R&B / Soul |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Business; Crime; Fiction; History; Non-fiction; Romance; Science / Technology; Travel |
TV Habits: |
There're several shows I watch regularly |
TV Shows: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Nature / Wildlife; News; Soap operas; Sport; Talk shows; Variety shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie Preferences: |
Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Romance; War |
Interests: |
Business news; Gardening; Healthy living; Investing; Meditation; Reading; Surfing the Internet; Writing books |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Birdwatching; Body building; Bungee jumping; Camping; Cycling; Horse Riding; Motorsport; Running; Soccer; Surfing; Swimming; Table Tennis; Weight training |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
Fine Dining; Seafood; South African |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Other |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time with the family |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I'm an only child |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Reptile(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Power; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Sarcasm |
Religious Attendance: |
Once a week |
Politics: |
Liberal |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Feelings about using PositiveBuzz: |
Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Very |